Friday, August 18, 2017

Feed your soul while you learn Sign Language. 12 lessons that can be broken down to 2 or more lessons.  Includes a lot of additional information about the deaf and their language and sharing the gospel with them.
  

Monday, June 27, 2016

Everything Happens For a Reason

I ran across a post by a lady named Christine Sukan and I found out I'm not the only one who shivers, emotionally, sometimes, when this phrase is spoken, as though it is a solution to someone's pain and heartache. 

Christine writes: Have you ever found yourself, in the midst of unimaginable grief, pain, heartache or despair, wondering how you are going to make it through another day? Wondering where your next breath is going to come from? Your world has crumbled beneath you and you are left feeling shattered, empty and hopeless.And then a well meaning person comes along and drops the infamous “Everything happens for a reason” bomb?* 


I would not have described the phrase as a "bomb" but it feels like that to her and it may to many others. But I do sometimes feel perplexed by this supposedly comforting phrase "everything happens for a reason" and often followed by something like -" God's got it all under control"...  When that happens, I'm wondering are they saying that God's got some reason to make us ill, in pain,  heartbroken or in mental anguish?  I've prayed "Lord, if you are trying to teach me something through this, please help me to be a fast learner" But we all, including myself, stumble around with our words in those times when we are trying to encourage or comfort our friends and we realize most people mean well when they say things like this. So,  I'm hoping that maybe we can kind of think this through together.
 
Christine describes her experience this way: I spent years searching for answers, trying to find reasons that would bring an end to my pain. I thought that if I could find the cause, I could treat the condition. But what I found through years of searching, experiencing and living is that sometimes bad things happen for no reason other than we are human beings having a human experience. Pain, heartache, grief, loss, disease and death are inevitable parts of the human experience. *


Just as I have not suffered exactly the pains someone else has and no one else has suffered exactly as I have and although no two life paths have been the same,  the one thing we do share is that we are all humans.   Now, just imagine you are God and you look down below and see every human's path drawn out.  It would look like a bowl of spaghetti.
  In some places of each of our paths, we will cross other's pathway or walk along beside them for a while, but at some point, the paths will separate again.  That's because God lets us make choices and it causes the uniqueness of our own life path.   




I so agree with her about the conclusion she has reached about God’s will: "God's will is not the path we walk, but rather how we walk the path.  God’s will is not for an innocent child to be brutally murdered. God’s will is not for a teenage girl to be raped. God’s will is not chronic pain, illness, disability or death. God’s will is not an event that happens to us. God’s will is for us to draw close to him in the midst of pain, sorrow, grief. God’s will is for us to use our painful life events to carry his message of hope, grace, forgiveness and mercy." * Image result for woman crying

I sure don't know a lot, but I've learned God's will is for us to lean into Him, lay our weary head on his caring heart, trust Him to love us, to share our greatest heart aches with us, ask Him for healing, ask Him for help, ask Him for comfort and then trust Him.  Sometimes He works a miracle and we receive instant relief, but sometimes He doesn't.  In other words, in the end, we have to choose to let God bring purpose and meaning to our suffering. I've found that the sweet Holy Spirit of our God, will help us choose to respond in a way that brings good into an impossible or horrific situation here on this earth and to look forward in hope to the day when Jesus comes back and we get to see him and our Heavenly Father face to face!

So, here's what I think about this idea of "everything happens for a reason":  If "everything does happen for a reason", many times it is not a comforting, holy or loving reason of our Heavenly Father's, but, instead,  the tragic, enduring outcome of the decree God made to Adam and Eve when he forced them out of the garden. He told them they would, from then own, work hard to put food on the table and feel pain and know sorrow as children were born to them.   But, forcing them out was, actually, a loving kindness thing that He did for them.  If he had left them in the garden, I feel pretty sure they would have eventually been tempted into eating of the Tree of Life also.  Thank God He did not let that happen, or they would have lived on for eternity with evil Image result for man cryingand the sorrow and pain of it mingled into their lives!  As it was, the 930 years of Adam's life were a continual revelation of evil as he saw hearts broken and lives lost because of jealousy, murdering, stealing, envy, hatred, sexual sins and every other kinds of evil.  My guess is that he wished many times that he had never eaten that fruit from that tree of good and evil and learned how horrible evil is.  Though, originally, God placed Adam and Eve in a paradise of wonder and goodness and though they could actually walk and talk face to face with God Almighty, it wasn't enough to them. They wanted to know about the evil as well as the good, enough to disobey their protector, provider, loving Father, friend and creator. So, all of humanity shares in knowing not only the good, but the evil and pain of this earthly existence.  I'm so thankful that Jesus came and made a way that our life paths can be changed and we can walk and talk with our Heavenly Father again on this earth while embracing the hope of eternity in Heaven when this life is finished.  God's got it under control, but only if we love Him and let Him because everything happens for a reason!



* http://www.faithit.com/christine-suhan-christians-stop-saying-everything-happens-reason/ by Christine Suhan  a wife, stay at home mother to three wild toddler boys and writer/creator .  She has a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy and enjoys helping people through openly and honestly sharing her journey of life, recovery, mental illness, marriage, parenting and more.

Thursday, May 26, 2016

Our Destructive Culture of Busyness

We live in a culture that tells us we should always be busy going somewhere, doing something, pursuing a goal, getting things done, making or fulfilling our "bucket list".  I recently read this book and it was a blessing to me so I wanted to share it with all of you.  While reading this book, the author pricked my mind as he informed the reader about what the Sabbath really means. It's not about a debate of Saturday verses Sunday as the Sabbath. Publishers weekly describes it correctly this way - "the author campaigns persuasively for readers to revive the  Sabbath as a refuge from our destructive " culture of  busyness"  

Monday, January 4, 2016

Hard Times by Edna Auline Summers

Have you had times in life when it seemed all of life was beautiful? And suddenly  it seemed all was turned upside down.?   If you have not then get ready: at some point it will. I heard a song this morning that rings so true, "Sometimes it takes a storm to find our hiding place." And sometimes we find something good at the bottom of our upside down world.

I remember the first time I saw my Mother bake an "Upside Cake."   She prepared the pan then put in the bottom of it coconut, pecans and pineapple. Then I watched as she made the cake batter and poured it in on top of the wonderful yummy things in the bottom of the pan. My thought was , She has covered up all those "goodies"  but after the cake had been in the heat of the oven for the given time she took it out, let it cool a bit then turned it upside down and there I beheld all those wonderful things embedded in the cake just waiting for "supper time."  
Sometimes we feel we have had more than our share of the "HEAT " but when God turns our upside down world over, there are beautiful blessings to be enjoyed at "Supper Time"

I have told you these things, so that you may have perfect peace and confidence. In the world you have tribulation and trials and distress and frustration; but be of good cheer . Take courage; be confident, certain , undaunted! For I have overcome the world. I have deprived it of power to harm you and have conquered it for you. John 16:33  (AMP version)
                         

Saturday, January 2, 2016

Love changes everything


Why Jesus Came

In the Garden of Eden, God had things set up like he wanted them.  Each day He came and walked and talked with the man and woman he created and placed there.  They could ask him questions, they could tell Him their hopes and dreams, they could hear him tell them directly what he wanted of them, they could enjoy perfect peace and safety.  He gave them a wonderful place to live, abundant with everything they were created to want and need.  But He told them there was one thing in their perfect environment  that was not for them.  But, He loved them so! He hoped that would be enough and that they would love Him so much they would not do this one thing he told them not to do. 

But walking and talking and being provided for by such a loving God was not enough to please them.  They wanted to know more.  They knew it was called the tree of knowledge and they wanted that.  So, they ate some and mankinds future changed.    Centuries passed wherein mankind tried to get a world of their own making.  But God had not left them and he still talked to those willing and wanting to hear from him.  But most wanted to "be like everybody else"  They wanted leadership from a man like they were, like they could relate to, like they could use as an excuse to not be or do exactly what God wanted, because, after all they were only human too.  So, God let them have some spiritual leaders, some kings, many rules and rituals and eventually mankind had forgotten how it had been to walk and talk with God.  But they thought if they did the rituals and kept the rules, that should give them a good life here on earth and a good eternity after this life.   And some replaced that for walking and talking with God everyday and learning from him how to love with purity and grace.

So God sent Jesus, his only begotten son to bring the truth of His love back to human kind.  Jesus said "you have the rules memorized, but your heart is not in it when you are keeping them."  He said we had to be born again to the purest He had originally planed for mankind.  He said the first commandment was to love God with all your heart and the second was to Love Thy neighbor as thyself.  He explained what he meant by that:  Don't kill someone because all humanity is your neighbor.  Basically  said,  "I want to walk and talk with you every day again.  Repent and show me that's what you want too".